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Lifestyle and Stress Management Themes (include, but are not limited to the following):

  • Gain insight and strategies for lifestyle and stress management that you can use immediately in yourlife,whether it be at home, at work, and/or in your creative life.
  • Become authentically reconnected and reacquainted with your true self.
  • Enrich the relationships with those around you including family, friends, co-workers, and spouse.
  • Understand the cycle of stress and how it impacts life’s outcomes and the relationships with one's self and others.
  • Find balance, meaning, and purpose in your life.
  • Recognize the various stages of stress.
  • Increase your personal awareness of your unique response to stressful situations.
  • Realize the value of universal reciprocity and mutuality.
  • Learn to listen to, trust in, and believe in your authentic self and your resounding intuition.
  • Identify and appreciate the fundamental messages revealed during our most difficult experiences.
  • Exercise authenticity and integrity to promote permanent solutions to personal conflicts in your life.
  • Awaken your creative self as a means to manifesting happiness now.
  • Discover the innate power that is realized when exercising the complete self (mind, body, and spirit).
  • Seek out and acknowledge the enlightened individuals in your life.
  • Connect with the influential and universal energy that is inherent in laughter, music, and creativity.
  • Begin writing your own personal and unique life story.
  • Find meaning and purpose in all that you do.
  • Reframe and reinterpret life’s challenges and adverse experiences as powerful opportunities for learning
  • Substitute negative and self-destructive “crutches” with empowering and supportive “crutches”.
  • Learn how to move away from judgment and disparagement and towards encouragement andempowerment.

Relational Parenting Themes (include, but are not limited to the following): *

  • Become a positive influence in your children’s life.
  • Incorporate CRUTCHES in your parenting experience.
  • Communicate effectively with your children.
  • Explore various parenting strategies.
  • Understand the harmful affects stress has on parenting and families.
  • Apply strategies to effectively manage stress in your life in order to positively enhance your parenting experience.
  • Discover the influence of encouragement and empowerment versus the detriment of enabling and criticism.
  • Explore the emotionality of parenting.
  • Apply the concepts of RUTH (Respect, Understanding, Trust, Honesty).
  • Correct negative behavior by employing RUTH.
  • Help your children develop a positive self-concept.
  • Engage in relational mutuality and reciprocity.
  • Create impressionable learning opportunities during challenging moments.
  • Become familiar with the “18-year-old newborn” perspective.
  • Explore how you were parented and how you parent: making the connection.
  • Prioritize taking the time; having fun.
  • Make sense of attachment styles.
  • Become aware of the various environmental factors that impact parenting.
  • Recognize and understand children as mirrors.
  • Encourage creativity.
  • Lead by example; setting the tone.
  • Promote a sense of belonging and contribution; feeling connected.
  • Understand the effectiveness and empowering outcomes of distant parenting.
  • Distinguish your role as a unique and irreplaceable guide versus a friend.

Positive Youth Development and Leadership Themes (include, but are not limited to the following): *

  • Acquire lifelong developmental assets.
  • Discover your meaning and purpose.
  • Declare ownership of aspirations and dreams.
  • Develop strategies for effectively coping with daily stressors.
  • Understand the impact of stress and its various stages.
  • Establish healthy relationship with peers and adults.
  • Positive attitude; maintain never giving up.
  • Reframe and reinterpret adverse life circumstances.
  • Appreciate the value of character and the privilege of leadership.
  • Exercise self-discovery and exploration.
  • Practice healthy exposure: step out of your comfort zone.
  • Take responsibility for your life’s outcomes.
  • Be the author of your life.
  • Making connections; find a mentor.
  • Value resourcefulness, relationships, and resiliency.
  • Applying CRUTCHES/RUTH in your life.
  • Managing life’s challenges head on.
  • Get connected with your community—make a difference.
  • Understand intrinsic and extrinsic motivation/internal and external locus of control.
  • 7 E’s (Empowerment, Encouragement, Enlightenment, Environment, Entertainment, Exchange, and Education).
  • 6 C’s (Competence, Confidence, Character, Centered, Connection, and Contribution).
  • Embrace your uniqueness; write your life story.
  • Practice goal setting.
  • Develop your own value and belief system.
  • Ask the right questions.
  • Most importantly…Have fun!

* Incorporates Lifestyle and Stress Management